As humans we tend to make mistakes on the daily because let’s face it we aren’t perfect by no means. We are constantly making mistakes but that shouldn’t stop us from living life the way we want to. My thoughts are always going wild in my brain. One of the top ones is making memories with our loved ones. Now how will we make time to make those memories with the ones that we care about when life is already chaotic and it gets crazier as we get older. Well come with me as I share what has worked for me and my family. Again don’t read this article like I’m telling you what to do. Read it with an open mind because you never know what can help.
First you have to narrow down the list of who you would want to be around you and your family. Again this is what has worked for my family. You start off with immediate family and list people that you know will bring that vibe and good energy not just around you but your kids as well. Remember that family isn’t always going to be top priority if they don’t bring the good in you. This doesn’t mean you cut them off what this means is you limit yourself from being around them. So remember to look at what peace looks like and start writing names down. This will make your life much easier and calmer.
Ok, so you write down the names of your immediate family. What’s next? So you start jotting friends down but remember the good energy and vibe is key. If you are a parent sometimes it’s hard to make new friends but not always. For myself and my husband we are blessed to have some amazing friends that have became like Family but we have met some other friends along the way that turned into some amazing friendships and can potentially become family. As we get older we tend to spot the fake ones way too quick and that’s ok because we aren’t here to waist time. I suggest you don’t waist your time either. No drama equals making valuable and precious memories together.
So what’s next? Alright so you wrote down the names right!? Now start planning things to do with them and making it happen. I know I have said it many times to some but have you heard the saying, “let’s hang out sometime”. Then it just doesn’t happen. Well, this doesn’t happen because you don’t want it to happen but because you don’t write it down on your calendar and actually make plans. As we get older we need to have things written down in order to actually happen. Why? Because life is chaotic and if we don’t write it down then it just won’t happen. So let’s get that calendar out and start reaching out to all the people on your list. I must you warn though that you will make some memorable memories and they will forever be unforgettable.
So let’s stop waisting time and get those peeps on your list and start making those precious and priceless moments. We aren’t promised tomorrow so let’s do it.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day and reading my thoughts and hopefully they help you out in some way. With much love and peace.
Ericka CastaƱos
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